{"id":411,"date":"2010-07-29T05:33:44","date_gmt":"2010-07-29T05:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=411"},"modified":"2013-05-09T04:48:12","modified_gmt":"2013-05-09T04:48:12","slug":"day-57-a-prelude-to-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=411","title":{"rendered":"Day 57- A Prelude to Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/YE7YbR3wYxc?list=PL10BAAC32A84C3E3F\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Men often masturbate before going out on a date or having sex with a partner. \u00a0It is often to help pro-long the lovemaking experience- to help them last longer since they have already ejaculated. \u00a0But you hardly ever hear about women masturbating to orgasm before sex with a partner. \u00a0I decided to do it and see what happened. \u00a0I did a bunch of clitoral stimulation, played in and out of my pattern and had a great orgasm. \u00a0It was great to have a little foreplay with myself before getting on my with guy. \u00a0I was curious if it would decrease or increase my desire for him. \u00a0I do wonder what the difference would be if I had just worked myself up, but didn&#8217;t have an orgasm. That will have to be for another time.<\/p>\n<p>A few hours later I was up in the love loft with my partner. \u00a0He was having a lot of pain in his hips and legs, so I started by just holding his pelvis. \u00a0He talked about how stressed he has been, how much pressure he is putting on himself and how much he has missed us being able to connect for long periods of time. \u00a0Tears came into his eyes and he started to release a bunch of emotion. \u00a0I was crying too. \u00a0It was a very emotional and intimate session. \u00a0We started touching and holding each other going in and out of emotional intensity. \u00a0We did some oral sex, lots of touching and very little penetration. \u00a0Neither of us had a big explosive orgasm, but instead we had something very deep, very intimate and very connected. \u00a0I think that if hadn&#8217;t had an orgasm earlier in the day I might not have been in the space for something like this. \u00a0I might have felt like I needed some &#8220;normal&#8221; sex and my orgasm. \u00a0It was nice to just float in pleasure, love and connection without any need for anything more. \u00a0It was quite beautiful and heart felt and even more fulfilling than any orgasm could be.<\/p>\n<div class=\"twttr_buttons\"><div class=\"twttr_twitter\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=Day+57-+A+Prelude+to+Sex\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"\" data-hashtags=\"\"  data-size=\"default\" data-url=\"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=411\"  data-related=\"\" target=\"_blank\">Tweet<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men often masturbate before going out on a date or having sex with a partner. \u00a0It is often to help pro-long the lovemaking experience- to help them last longer since they have already ejaculated. \u00a0But you hardly ever hear about women masturbating to orgasm before sex with a partner. \u00a0I decided to do it and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[96,10,7,163,162,164,145,4],"class_list":["post-411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-video","tag-clitoral-orgasm","tag-clitoral-stimulation","tag-jaiya","tag-masturbation-before-having-sex","tag-orgasms-before-sex","tag-sex-with-partner","tag-sheri-winston","tag-solo-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=411"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/411\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":982,"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/411\/revisions\/982"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}