{"id":451,"date":"2010-08-10T05:09:59","date_gmt":"2010-08-10T05:09:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=451"},"modified":"2013-05-09T04:42:22","modified_gmt":"2013-05-09T04:42:22","slug":"day-60-61-before-and-after-lovemaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=451","title":{"rendered":"Day 60 &#038; 61- Before and After Lovemaking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pA7oIrklJAc?list=PL10BAAC32A84C3E3F\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I just wasn&#8217;t in the mood for sex. \u00a0My partner and I had planned an intimacy session together, but I felt really in my head and was having a hard time switching gears from work. \u00a0I took a shower and decided to do a little self pleasuring to get in the mood. \u00a0Boy was I resistant! \u00a0I just couldn&#8217;t get into the right head space. \u00a0A little genital touch in the shower did help get me feeling a bit more open to the idea and I was ready by the time my shower ended. \u00a0We climbed up into the love loft, but just as we got things started the baby started crying. \u00a0I went down to soothe him back to sleep. \u00a0Back up in the loft we got going again with a little foreplay, but the baby woke a second time. \u00a0Third attempt, but to no avail. \u00a0The baby must have had &#8220;sex dar&#8221; tonight. \u00a0By the time I finally got him asleep for good, my partner was pleasantly snoring away in the love loft. \u00a0It was after midnight, a new day, so I thought I&#8217;d try a little self pleasure to help me relax. \u00a0I went out to the living room and there in the darkness proceeded to do a little self touch, but it seemed so unsuccessful. \u00a0I still couldn&#8217;t get into it. \u00a0I have so many tools to help me overcome moments like these, but I just wanted to sleep or work. \u00a0And since this is all about self pleasure, that&#8217;s what I proceeded to do: Sleep.<\/p>\n<div class=\"twttr_buttons\"><div class=\"twttr_twitter\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=Day+60+%26+61-+Before+and+After+Lovemaking\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"\" data-hashtags=\"\"  data-size=\"default\" data-url=\"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=451\"  data-related=\"\" target=\"_blank\">Tweet<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just wasn&#8217;t in the mood for sex. \u00a0My partner and I had planned an intimacy session together, but I felt really in my head and was having a hard time switching gears from work. \u00a0I took a shower and decided to do a little self pleasuring to get in the mood. \u00a0Boy was I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[170,168,142,169],"class_list":["post-451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-video","tag-before-sex","tag-frustration","tag-masturbation-after-sex","tag-not-so-great-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/451","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=451"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/451\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":979,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/451\/revisions\/979"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=451"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=451"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=451"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}