{"id":533,"date":"2010-08-30T22:49:57","date_gmt":"2010-08-30T22:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=533"},"modified":"2013-05-04T02:33:43","modified_gmt":"2013-05-04T02:33:43","slug":"day-80-morning-pattern-and-committing-to-self-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=533","title":{"rendered":"Day 80- Morning Pattern and Committing to Self Love"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a> Still feeling aroused from my evening session with my partner, I woke up wanting more \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 orgasms.\u00a0 I went into the pattern, had my clitoral orgasm and started the day.\u00a0 I really \u00a0 wanted \u00a0to get to the gym for a Core Fusion class, but I couldn’t get out the door.\u00a0 The baby was crying, I couldn’t find my contacts\u2026I eventually did get to the gym, but I was in a rather sour mood.<\/p>\n

My partner recently brought up the fact to me that I really neglect myself.\u00a0 I started to see all the areas of my life where this is true.\u00a0 I’m a new mom, I run a very full time sex education company<\/a>, I produce videos<\/a>, I write blogs, I appear in the media, and I have two partners.\u00a0 Life is very full.\u00a0 I don’t really see it as neglect of myself, it’s more like I’m just no that into self-preservation.\u00a0 But I can see his point.\u00a0 I need to take more care of myself and that is what this 101 Days of Pleasure<\/a> project is about, loving myself, taking time for myself.\u00a0 But it turns into work in some way.\u00a0 I have to write my blog, film a video, upload the posts, edit etc.\u00a0 Sometimes it turns from self-pleasure into an obligation.\u00a0 In order to care for myself more I will be doing less video posting (and since my camera is gone) and more writing for the time being.\u00a0 There are some basic things I’m just not good at since I had my baby, like remembering to drink water, to take deep breaths, to brush my teeth and hair.\u00a0 I feel lucky if I get more than one shower in a week.<\/p>\n

Okay, I only have 21 more days of this challenge.\u00a0 If there is any time to do this, it’s now.\u00a0 First step- Eat a Healthy Lunch! Next make a list of all the ways in which I neglect myself.\u00a0 That way I can see what is really going on\u2026.So I made the list, and it’s pretty depressing.\u00a0 The biggest area that I neglect myself is my body, the next is financially.\u00a0 These are the two things I will be working on for the next 21 days.\u00a0 Feeding my body and my state of abundance.\u00a0 No more of this neglect stuff.\u00a0 I also made a list of what feeds me, and I’m going to do lots more of that.\u00a0 Over the next 21 days, more self-care, more dance, more attention to my finances, more trips to the gym, eating great food and definitely more deep breaths!\u00a0 Orgasms are easy, but truly and deeply loving myself enough to make my body a priority is another challenge.\u00a0 I’m up for it.<\/p>\n

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Still feeling aroused from my evening session with my partner, I woke up wanting more \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 orgasms.\u00a0 I went into the pattern, had my clitoral orgasm and started the day.\u00a0 I really \u00a0 wanted \u00a0to get to the gym for a Core Fusion class, but I couldn’t get out […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,187],"tags":[96,10,176,203,158,25],"class_list":["post-533","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-video","category-101-days-reports","tag-clitoral-orgasm","tag-clitoral-stimulation","tag-gym","tag-raw-foods","tag-self-love","tag-yoga"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/533","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=533"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/533\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":807,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/533\/revisions\/807"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=533"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=533"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=533"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}