{"id":627,"date":"2010-09-06T23:03:57","date_gmt":"2010-09-06T23:03:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=627"},"modified":"2013-05-04T02:32:25","modified_gmt":"2013-05-04T02:32:25","slug":"day-95-compersion-fantasy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/?p=627","title":{"rendered":"Day 95- Compersion Fantasy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/oral_sex_case_1_small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-628\" title=\"dvdcasewrap.pdf\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/oral_sex_case_1_small-213x300.jpg\" width=\"213\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/oral_sex_case_1_small-213x300.jpg 213w, https:\/\/101daysofpleasure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/oral_sex_case_1_small.jpg 383w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 213px) 100vw, 213px\" \/><\/a>Today was the official launch of my new <a title=\"Oral Sex for Couples Series\" href=\"http:\/\/www.oralsexforcouples.com\">Oral Sex series<\/a>, so there was a lot to celebrate.\u00a0 The new season of my <a title=\"Sex with Jaiya\" href=\"http:\/\/www.sexwithjaiya.com\">Radio Show<\/a> also started.\u00a0 The topic was <a title=\"Aloe Cadabra Lube\" href=\"http:\/\/www.newworldsexeducation.com\/product.php?productid=58&amp;cat=8&amp;page=1\">Lube<\/a>.\u00a0 It is always such a joy to talk openly about sexuality with other people.\u00a0 And my Radio Show is like an hour of foreplay!\u00a0 I love it.\u00a0 After the show I went out for a celebration dinner, and I purchases a new camera (this is a little retail therapy!).\u00a0 I hope to start posting regular <strong>video blogs<\/strong> as this journey comes to an end.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve been self-pleasuring a lot these last few days, late at night, early in the morning, in the afternoon.\u00a0 My main sexual partner being gone frees up a lot more time for self love.<\/p>\n<p>Today my mood was high.\u00a0 I felt great.\u00a0 Accomplishment is a wonderful <strong>aphrodisiac<\/strong> for me.\u00a0 I played with some fantasy tonight.\u00a0 I was imagining my partner at <strong>Burningman<\/strong> having the most fantastic time, flirting with other women, making out,\u00a0 getting his sexy on.\u00a0 Imagining him having so much fun was a huge turn on.\u00a0 Culturally, I think that most people would see this as odd.\u00a0 But I don&#8217;t get jealous really.\u00a0 Instead I experience something called <a title=\"Compersion\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Compersion\">Compersion<\/a>, which is when you actually love it when your partner is loving or being loved by someone else.\u00a0 When I know my partner is having a great time, even if it is without me, I feel really happy. \u00a0I love the idea of <strong>Compersion, <\/strong>it feels so much better than jealousy, which we have come to equate with love. \u00a0In my self-pleasure today I indulged in my turn-on through this state of seeing my partner erotically happy! 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