I don’t know what it is about using a vibrator, but I just want to go straight for my clitoris! All of my training as a sexologist goes out the window and I don’t use any of my erotic tools. I noticed this as I played with a new toy. I left the bcurious charging overnight so that it would be ready for me today. I love the ergonomic design, it fit so perfectly in my hand. I found that the 4th speed was my favorite with little pulses and a buzz. Once I stopped myself form going straight for the gold, I was able to play more creatively. It’s nice when I sink into the sensations. The bcurious was a great warm-up and I really want to try it again. I finished my session with some manual stimulation combined with the vibration and had a lovely clitoral orgasm. I ended with some yummy coconut water.
P.S. I also had the opportunity to go to a dance class tonight, which is so much self-pleasure it’s crazy. The class was with Misty Tripoli, called the Groove Method, and I had an awesome time!
My legs are still shaking as a write this. A lovely afternoon with myself has led to a feeling a euphoria and being “weak in the knees”. I decided to do the homework assignment that Sheri Winston gave me. I got out the Eroscilator, which I have used before and gave it a second round. I stared on my thighs and oscilated my way towards my vulva. I played with it on my labia both on the inside and outside, I went for my clitoral shaft, and eventually the head of my clitoris. When I got to the head of my clit, it was just way too sensitive, so I backed off. I don’t know what it is about me and vibrators, but when I play with one I just want to put it on my clit and see what it does. I must resist that temptation. Then I felt something that surprised me. I felt the vibration in my anus and it felt good. I have to admit, I feel a little vulnerable putting this all out there, but I have committed to sharing all of this, so here goes…
First I started on my butt checks, which felt really good. Then I worked into the area between my vaginal opening and my anus, that felt good too. Then finally I put the head of the Eroscilator on my anal sphincter, that felt awesome. I held it there with one hand, while I used my other hand to stimulate my clitoris. That felt really good! So I kept going until I worked my way into a deep and intense clitoral orgasm. I used some breathing too, seems to have carried over from the weekend of doing lots of breath and sound. It definitely feels like there is a lot coming together (no pun intended).
There’s a sex toy that many of my female friends rave about, so I’ve been saving it for a special day. I really wanted to treat myself to a nice session so I pulled out the Eroscilator. This isn’t a vibrator, it actually oscilates, which is more like your finger moving back and forth over your clitoris. I unpacked this golden pleasure device and carefully read the instructions. It has a number of different attachments, I choose the ball attachment. I was very excited for an awesome experience. Maybe I built it up a little too much. I was really hoping that it didn’t do the same thing that I often experience with vibrators, which is that my clitoris gets overstimulated and I have these little quick surface orgasms. Knowing this I started with indirect stimulation to my clit through my labia. Then I moved to the clitoral shaft. This was all very nice. As soon as I got near my clitoral head, wham! One of those little orgasms and my clit became too sensitive. I moved to manual stimulation and had an awesome clitoral orgasm. Will I try the Eroscilator again? Yes, there’s a lot to explore about this toy and I want to try it all. As I’ve learned with sex, it changes from day to day. Right now I feel like I am totally learning how to use vibrating and oscilating toys. It’s a good thing that I like to practice!