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Day 39- Lingerie- Lending a Hand

I’ve been wanting to do something with Lingerie since I started this expedition.  So today I got out a little bra and pantie set that I had bought for a Playboy shoot that I did earlier this year.  This self-pleasure session did involve my partner.  He was loving the lingerie and it started what turned out to be one very “hot” lovemaking session.  During the session, as per the theme of self-pleasuring, I leant a hand by giving myself clitoral stimulation as we had intercourse.  It was awesome.  I had both vaginal and clitoral orgasms, and my partner was riding on wave after wave of energetic orgasm before going over the edge into an ejaculatory orgasm.  I wanted to continue my self-pleasure by checking out the lingerie in a mirror so that I could see my sexiness.  And did I look sexy!  I have never liked lingerie because I never felt like I looked good in it, but this was awesome.  I felt like one hot mamma, and that felt really good.  I think I’ll have to get some more to add to my collection.  Ladies, if you are on the fence about Lingerie, well, I advise not giving up on it and go on a hunt for stuff that makes you feel sexy.  I think that the most important part, was the feeling sexy piece.  It increase my libido, it increased my partner’s libido, and it made the whole experience really fun.  Not to mention that it was very out of our pattern since I have never worn lingerie before, so it gave the whole thing that extra level of the erotic.  It was like being together in the begining of our relationship, before the baby, when everything is new.  I loved it!

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Day 38- Giving It a Whirl

Just had an awesome orgasm, did I need that!  I spent the day looking at naked bodies (working on my oral sex series) and listening to sex stories on Playboy Radio, so by the time I got home I was feeling turned on.  I decided to try something that I have never tried before, which is humping a pillow.  I never thought it would be effective.  I got out the Liberator Whirl and well, gave it a Whirl!  It was nice, kind of like being on top of my partner.  I could have definitly had a clitoral orgasm from the stimulation of it, but I got impatient and wanted the release, so I went for my good old faithful manual technique.  I think I had the orgasm in under 30 seconds.  My clitoris was very engorged with blood and ready to go.  I must have been aroused all day long!  This was great, I will definitly try pillow humping again 🙂

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Day 33- A Relaxed Late Night

It’s ten till midnight and I’ve just had a fantastically deep orgasm.  I’ve noticed that my arousal is definitly up, and D. Love and I missed our intimacy time today due to not being able to get a sitter, so I’ve been in need of my self love sessions for sure!  Tonight was another late one.  It started about 30 minutes ago and I was determined not to make it a quickie and got into my pattern.  I set the intention to stay very relaxed and to notice when any tension came into my body at all.  If tension crept in a backed off, relaxed and dove back into the pleasure.  For some reason tonight I really noticed sound: the crickets outside, the hum of the refridgerator, the pops and creaks in the house.  I was incredibly tired.  I’ve been working extra because I’m working on my postpartum sexuality project with Ellen Heed, and we’ve been writing and writing.  At any rate, the exhaustion was a benefit because it helped to keep me relaxed.  I mostly focused on clitoral stimulation with gential massage techniques from my book and DVDs.  I like practicing what I preach, so using my own techniques is important to me.  I played with Jilling Off a lot, that’s one of my favorites.  I kept getting close to orgasm, but backing off, in order to stay relaxed.  When the orgasm did come it was deep, long lasting and very satisfying.  I haven’t had one like that in a long time!

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Day 31- A Quickie

Working, Working, and Working.  I’m feeling like my self-pleasure is getting tossed to the wayside.  So today was real quickie (under 30 seconds), it’s been awhile since I’ve had a clitoral orgasm, so I went for it.  Now is the time to re-commit to really taking the time for self-care, self-nurturing and self-pleasure.  When we are busiest is when we need it the most!

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