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Day 98: A 5-Toy Anal Exploration!

WHEW!  This was quite the session, over and hour of play with 5 different sex toys.  My intention was to explore some anal play.  I have this great toy and I have no idea what it is called.  I got it from the Adult Novelties Expo in 2008.  It’s a steal piece, shaped like a curvy number seven with a large ball at the top and a small ball at the bottom (you can see it in the video).  The large end goes inside your anus and the small part inside of your vagina.  It’s curved in a such a ways that you get really intense stimulation at the roof of your vagina, on or near your g-spot area.  I played with this toy a lot the fall of 2008, and then forgot about it.  It’s been beckoning me from the love loft.

I have to back up a bit.  I started the session knowing that i was going to go into anal play, so I did a bit of prep, making sure I had some lubricant, my anal toys, and that I had cleaned the area properly.  Sometimes I do an enema, but today I felt some light cleaning was enough.  I went up to the love loft ready for a long and pleasurable session.  I started by building arousal with a new toy.  Kissa, by Eden Fantasys, is a glass vibrator with a great bumpy texture at its head.  I took Sheri Winston’s advice and played around all over before going to my clitoris.  Then I found a stroke that was really great.  I went up and down over my clit with the Kissa as opposed to side to side like I normally do when using my hands.  This felt good and I could have had a deep clitoral orgasm, but I wanted to do my anal play.

I stopped with the Kissa and did some external anal massage with my fingers to warm myself up before inserting anything.  I got out a mirror and took a look at my anus to see how things were going.  I noticed a bit of residual scar tissue that Ellen Heed and I must have missed when working to rid my pelvic floor of the painful scars from giving birth.  I made a note to get another session with Ellen specific to the anal scar.  When I felt that my anus was ready I inserted the seven shaped steal toy.  WOW!  I love the intense g-spot stimulation it gives me.  It happens anytime that I contract my pelvic floor with this toy inside of me. Then I added the Kissa back in.  I decided that I wasn’t going to use my pattern and instead was intending to have a deep orgasm with the glass vibrator.  It worked too!  I had a lovely intense orgasm.   Upon orgasm the Seven shaped toy was pushed out by my pelvic floor muscles.

Now that I was all warmed up I wanted to try some of the other anal toys I had never tried. I got out a beautiful glass piece that I got from Liberator a few years ago.  Its full of color and has a gorgeous rose bud at the base.  It felt great inside.  Now I thought about dual penetration.  I had the Kegelcisor handy so inserted that into my vagina.  It was a very full feeling with glass and steal inside of me.  I did that for awhile and then tried my fingers instead of the Kegelcisor.  It was cool to feel the glass toy pushing up into my vaginal canal and I could see how women get g-spot stimulation from anal penetration.  Then I went to my old faithful and started using my finger on my clitoris.  I had a very powerful and intensely pleasurable orgasm.

Okay, onto the next anal toy.  The Tantus Ryder, a silicon butt plug.  I wanted to feel the different between steal, glass and silicon.  Vaginally I know that I prefer the harder materials.  Would I feel the same when it came to anal stimulation.  The Tantus Ryder is bigger, and the soft material made it harder for me to insert it easily.  However, once inside it felt good.  I liked contracting around the softer material.  I returned to a little kiss and could feel the vibration internally.  I played with my clitoris with the Kissa again.  It was nice and pleasurable.  I wanted to go back to manual stimulation of my clitoris.  I very quickly had another orgasm, this one was lighter, but still intense.

I gave my pelvic floor a workout!  The session lasted over an hour and it was wonderful to take the time for myself.  I hopped in the shower after and relaxed in the steam.  A perfect ending to a lovely session of self-love.

Note: If anyone can help me figure out the name of the mystery anal/g-spot toy, I’ll send you a free DVD of your choice!

Day 92- Kegelcisor and Phone Sex

I was on Playboy Radio almost a month ago when one of the callers gave me a homework assignment to try phone sex.  I came home and did some research and found a number on Betty Dodson’s site1800 EROTICA.  I went into the session feeling like I wouldn’t really be able to get into it and that it would ultimately turn out to be cheesy and dumb.  I was wrong.

Here’s my experience…

I was nervous, and I had been putting this assignment off, so I was somewhat pushing myself through resistance to try this.  Today, is the day! First, I picked out a toy to play with.  I got my new favorite lubeAloe Cadabra, and a Kegelcisor.  I read the instructions on the Kegelcisor, lubed up and dialed the number for the phone sex line.  First they wanted to verify my age, I had to answer a few questions to an automatic service.  It was discreet and non-invasive.  Plus, free I might add.  Then they asked if I was a man or a woman and if I was looking for a man or a woman.  Next, I was asked to make a personal message.  So, I recorded a short blurb about play and experimentation.  Then I was given a number of messages to listen to from men.  I was surprised that some of them were really sweet, some were very erotic, and some I knew right away that I wasn’t interested in.  Almost instantly I started getting private messages and invites for connection.  Some of the private messages were very arousing.  I’m putting it all out there, so I have to admit that the more arousing ones were men describing what they were doing or what they wanted to do.  I was less turned on by messages about age, hair color, location, weight or whatever.  While I listened to the messages I started in with clitoral stimulation and playing with the Kegelcisor.  I loved the weight of the Kegelcisor and the idea that I was working my pelvic floor muscles.  I finally did choose someone to connect with.  It was a message about teaching me how this all worked.  Ultimately the sex educator in me won out.  I wanted to learn so that I could teach!  Unfortunately, the caller was no longer on the line, so I went back to listening to the sea of erotic voices out there.  All of them seemed to want anonymous erotic connection.   I rode the sea of male voices on the line, that was pretty much enough for me.  Some of their messages I played over and over.  I had three orgasms that rolled into each other, first two vaginal orgasm and then a deep clitoral orgasm.  And right when a voice said “I would really like to be there when you have an orgasm”.  Well, he got his wish.

I hung up the phone and kept playing with the Kegelcisor.  I did about 5 minutes of specific exercises for my pelvic floor muscles.  It felt great post orgasm, like a deep massage after an intense workout.

I would actually recommend this.  It was fun, it was exciting and new, and I felt in control of who I wanted to talk to.  And it was pleasurable!  The thought did cross my mind that some people might consider phone sex cheating.  I’m in an open relationship so it isn’t an issue for me.  However, I could see how some people might get triggered by it.  On another note, phone sex is safe sex.  You don’t have to worry about STD’s, STI’s or emotional entanglements.