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Day 92- Kegelcisor and Phone Sex

I was on Playboy Radio almost a month ago when one of the callers gave me a homework assignment to try phone sex.  I came home and did some research and found a number on Betty Dodson’s site1800 EROTICA.  I went into the session feeling like I wouldn’t really be able to get into it and that it would ultimately turn out to be cheesy and dumb.  I was wrong.

Here’s my experience…

I was nervous, and I had been putting this assignment off, so I was somewhat pushing myself through resistance to try this.  Today, is the day! First, I picked out a toy to play with.  I got my new favorite lubeAloe Cadabra, and a Kegelcisor.  I read the instructions on the Kegelcisor, lubed up and dialed the number for the phone sex line.  First they wanted to verify my age, I had to answer a few questions to an automatic service.  It was discreet and non-invasive.  Plus, free I might add.  Then they asked if I was a man or a woman and if I was looking for a man or a woman.  Next, I was asked to make a personal message.  So, I recorded a short blurb about play and experimentation.  Then I was given a number of messages to listen to from men.  I was surprised that some of them were really sweet, some were very erotic, and some I knew right away that I wasn’t interested in.  Almost instantly I started getting private messages and invites for connection.  Some of the private messages were very arousing.  I’m putting it all out there, so I have to admit that the more arousing ones were men describing what they were doing or what they wanted to do.  I was less turned on by messages about age, hair color, location, weight or whatever.  While I listened to the messages I started in with clitoral stimulation and playing with the Kegelcisor.  I loved the weight of the Kegelcisor and the idea that I was working my pelvic floor muscles.  I finally did choose someone to connect with.  It was a message about teaching me how this all worked.  Ultimately the sex educator in me won out.  I wanted to learn so that I could teach!  Unfortunately, the caller was no longer on the line, so I went back to listening to the sea of erotic voices out there.  All of them seemed to want anonymous erotic connection.   I rode the sea of male voices on the line, that was pretty much enough for me.  Some of their messages I played over and over.  I had three orgasms that rolled into each other, first two vaginal orgasm and then a deep clitoral orgasm.  And right when a voice said “I would really like to be there when you have an orgasm”.  Well, he got his wish.

I hung up the phone and kept playing with the Kegelcisor.  I did about 5 minutes of specific exercises for my pelvic floor muscles.  It felt great post orgasm, like a deep massage after an intense workout.

I would actually recommend this.  It was fun, it was exciting and new, and I felt in control of who I wanted to talk to.  And it was pleasurable!  The thought did cross my mind that some people might consider phone sex cheating.  I’m in an open relationship so it isn’t an issue for me.  However, I could see how some people might get triggered by it.  On another note, phone sex is safe sex.  You don’t have to worry about STD’s, STI’s or emotional entanglements.

Day 45- I Love My JOB!

Being a Sex Educator is the best Job EVER! I mean who gets to talk about sex, self-pleasure on the job, and do research about love, relationships and pleasure!?!? Well, I do! Today I was back in the recording booth finishing the Voice Overs for the new Oral Sex Series. I was in the booth for a total of about 4 hours, so I thought I might as well take advantage of the time. I was alone in there, and the Voice Over could use a little added sexual energy, so why not go for it. As I read the techniques for cunnilingus I did a bunch of Kegel Exercises and the added some light clitoral stimulation. The chair I was sitting in was also nice to rock my pelvis back and forth. It was a yummy time!

Day 19- Part Two- Bathtime with a Triple Treat

Warning!  This is probably my most explicit post to date, so don’t say I didn’t warn you.  I just had to take advantage of the huge tub in my hotel room.  I poured myself a hot bath and threw in some bath and massage oil with Ylang Ylang in it.  AHHH!  The bath was so great that I couldn’t resist self-pleasuring.  I noticed when I looked up that I could see my reflection in the large shower head.  I positioned myself so that I could witness my self pleasure.  Just like my pole dancing early today, it was hot!  I brought some additional toys that weren’t being used as teaching aids.  After a long time in the bath, I got out to do an intense self pleasure session starting by using the Ophoria Rapture with Clitoral Stimulation.  After some time I added the Nobessence Kegel Sexerciser for Vaginal Stimulation.  So I had all three going at once- clit, anus and vagina.  After a few orgasms I decided to get back in the bath.  When I went in to the bathroom to take out the Sexerciser I gushed all over the floor, that the second time thats happened.  The bath was still warm, and a glorious place for after glow.  I quickly shot this video, before reading some erotic fairy tales and heading to sleep.

Day 6- Kegelgasms

Kegel exercises are so important for everyones sexual wellness and pleasure.  This morning I got up early to do a Pelvic Floor workout with a Bamboo Pleasure Object by Nobessence.  I started with 5 squeezes in and then 5 pushes out, repeating several times and adding an inhale with each squeeze, exhale with each push out.  Then I played with one hard full contraction and one slow push out.  Some arousal started building so I added clitoral stimulation with resistance on the toy by trying to pull it out with my hand, but resisting with my vaginal muscles.  This was great, and I ended up going into orgasm!  It’s the only workout I know where I get to build strength and have an orgasm!