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Day 98: A 5-Toy Anal Exploration!

WHEW!  This was quite the session, over and hour of play with 5 different sex toys.  My intention was to explore some anal play.  I have this great toy and I have no idea what it is called.  I got it from the Adult Novelties Expo in 2008.  It’s a steal piece, shaped like a curvy number seven with a large ball at the top and a small ball at the bottom (you can see it in the video).  The large end goes inside your anus and the small part inside of your vagina.  It’s curved in a such a ways that you get really intense stimulation at the roof of your vagina, on or near your g-spot area.  I played with this toy a lot the fall of 2008, and then forgot about it.  It’s been beckoning me from the love loft.

I have to back up a bit.  I started the session knowing that i was going to go into anal play, so I did a bit of prep, making sure I had some lubricant, my anal toys, and that I had cleaned the area properly.  Sometimes I do an enema, but today I felt some light cleaning was enough.  I went up to the love loft ready for a long and pleasurable session.  I started by building arousal with a new toy.  Kissa, by Eden Fantasys, is a glass vibrator with a great bumpy texture at its head.  I took Sheri Winston’s advice and played around all over before going to my clitoris.  Then I found a stroke that was really great.  I went up and down over my clit with the Kissa as opposed to side to side like I normally do when using my hands.  This felt good and I could have had a deep clitoral orgasm, but I wanted to do my anal play.

I stopped with the Kissa and did some external anal massage with my fingers to warm myself up before inserting anything.  I got out a mirror and took a look at my anus to see how things were going.  I noticed a bit of residual scar tissue that Ellen Heed and I must have missed when working to rid my pelvic floor of the painful scars from giving birth.  I made a note to get another session with Ellen specific to the anal scar.  When I felt that my anus was ready I inserted the seven shaped steal toy.  WOW!  I love the intense g-spot stimulation it gives me.  It happens anytime that I contract my pelvic floor with this toy inside of me. Then I added the Kissa back in.  I decided that I wasn’t going to use my pattern and instead was intending to have a deep orgasm with the glass vibrator.  It worked too!  I had a lovely intense orgasm.   Upon orgasm the Seven shaped toy was pushed out by my pelvic floor muscles.

Now that I was all warmed up I wanted to try some of the other anal toys I had never tried. I got out a beautiful glass piece that I got from Liberator a few years ago.  Its full of color and has a gorgeous rose bud at the base.  It felt great inside.  Now I thought about dual penetration.  I had the Kegelcisor handy so inserted that into my vagina.  It was a very full feeling with glass and steal inside of me.  I did that for awhile and then tried my fingers instead of the Kegelcisor.  It was cool to feel the glass toy pushing up into my vaginal canal and I could see how women get g-spot stimulation from anal penetration.  Then I went to my old faithful and started using my finger on my clitoris.  I had a very powerful and intensely pleasurable orgasm.

Okay, onto the next anal toy.  The Tantus Ryder, a silicon butt plug.  I wanted to feel the different between steal, glass and silicon.  Vaginally I know that I prefer the harder materials.  Would I feel the same when it came to anal stimulation.  The Tantus Ryder is bigger, and the soft material made it harder for me to insert it easily.  However, once inside it felt good.  I liked contracting around the softer material.  I returned to a little kiss and could feel the vibration internally.  I played with my clitoris with the Kissa again.  It was nice and pleasurable.  I wanted to go back to manual stimulation of my clitoris.  I very quickly had another orgasm, this one was lighter, but still intense.

I gave my pelvic floor a workout!  The session lasted over an hour and it was wonderful to take the time for myself.  I hopped in the shower after and relaxed in the steam.  A perfect ending to a lovely session of self-love.

Note: If anyone can help me figure out the name of the mystery anal/g-spot toy, I’ll send you a free DVD of your choice!

Day 87-Ella Re-Visted

Took my new favorite lube (Aloe Cadabra) and the Ella and laid down on the floor.  The dim lights and the scent of lavender from the lube helped me to feel more relaxed.  I started by pressing the Ella into my U-spot and Vaginal Opening, while doing clitoral stimulation.  I was able to quickly go into penetration.  It has amazed me how good vaginal stimulation is feeling these days.  My G-spot seems to be in a perpetual state of arousal and feels better than ever!  I don’t know if it’s all the self pleasure culminating or some kind of shift in my hormones.  I’ve been having more intercourse lately too.  Perhaps it’s a combination of everything.  As the pleasure mounted it became all about the moment and the sensation.  I was able to really feel the exquisite pleasure from the inside as I used the Ella to stimulate my g-spot and u-spot.  With my other hand I was doing clitoral stimulation by rubbing rapidly.  Had a great combination orgasm! Oh, and I went to the gym today, while there I read more of Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel.  I have to say that the book is one of my favorites right now.

Day 68- Fantasy Pulls Me Out of The FuNK

Finally, a great session.  I feel like I’m back!  My partner and I had our regularly scheduled intimacy time today.  Things have been so funky this week and I feel like I’ve lost sight of what this project is all about.  It’s about pleasure, and this week has felt like a chore.  But this session was what I love.  I’m making a new commitment to make this more about loving myself and more about what really brings me pleasure, more than anything else.  I have to take the time for myself.  So, back to my session.  My partner and I climbed up to the love loft.  We were still having trouble getting out of our heads, so I thought I might as well practice what I preach and use some of my own recommendations to help.  I closed my eyes and allowed my partner to tell me an erotic story.  He did a great job describing the details and using his touch to ground it into my body.  It got me really turned on both mentally and physically and the story telling helped to keep me very present in the moment.  We went deep into a fantasy that had us both highly aroused.

After a long session he reached climax.  I was on the verge of ejaculating (something that I don’t do much with him, and something he has never witnessed me doing).  So I grabbed one of the first toys I ever got, called a Crystal Wand, and I did some U-spot/G-spot stimulation.   It didn’t take long at all before I was ejaculating over and over again.  Thank God, for the Liberator Fascinator Thow, otherwise it would have been very messy.  My partner was a bit surprised by it, he actually gasped and his eyes got really wide.  I got a little self conscious, but I was really high from the lovemaking and now the demonstration that I was doing for him.  We didn’t really get any afterglow time because the babysitter was off in 5 minutes, so we had to scurry to switch gears.  Both of us felt very altered from our experience together.  I was so relaxed.  The most relaxed I have felt in a very, very long time.  YAY!

Day 67- Don Wand and Aloe Cadabra- YUMMY!

It really does help to take time out in the middle of the day to do my self-pleasure session!  Today I played with a Don Wand called the Bent Graduate, a double ended glass toy that was really very pleasurable.  I used some of my new favorite lube by Aloe Cadabra, it’s made of Aloe and that makes it great!  Combined G-spot stimulation with Clitoral Stimulation and played my way to a really nice blended orgasm!  Yay!  Most of all it was great to be with myself and great to get back in touch with taking the time to breathe and get somewhat out of my head.

Day 25- A Little Honey Dipping

Started off my session with some Hot Rawks– a libido enhancer made with cacao, cayenne pepper and maca powder.  That helped boost my energy for a great solo sex session.  Went up to the love loft and choose a new ceramic toy called the Honey Wand. I’ve never used ceramic and this was my first experience.  On my way there I notice that I had started my mentrual cycle, perfect timing (ha!) since I’ve dedicated this week to vaginal exploration.  Since I stick to my commitments I went for it anyway, and I’m so glad I did.  I started by using the wand externally in my clitoris, then added some lube and went for internal stimulation.  It was great at stimulating my G-spot even though it doesn’t have a curve.  I worked my way up to a vaginal orgasm that rolled into a clitoral orgasm into a combination g-spot and vaginal orgasm.  A great time int he middle of my work day.  Have I told you recently that I love my JOB!

Day 23- Using my Feet and a Wand!

A yummy day #23!  I got really creative in the Love Loft with the Crystal Chic Wand by California Exotics.  I didn’t have any batteries but the Wand was perfect without any vibration.  I loved being able to bend it and I found that using it to tap on my G-spot was lovely!  Then I got my feet involved, afterall you can always use more appendages!  This way my hands were free and I could massage my breasts and do some clitoral stimulation.  I spent a long time building up to orgasm.  It was fun having my feet up in the air moving the wand in just the right way.  I will surely try this again, next time with the vibration.

Day 18- Pleasure Waves

Decided to self-pleasure in my delux hotel room in Scotland.  Started by massaging my breast with Breast Balm, they’re really sore from all the milk pumping since I am away from my baby, so I treated them nice.  I set the intention to really get in touch with my feminine side, so often I live in the masculine (making business decisions, running the household, managing finances).  I wanted to just let go and surrender.  I thought that perhaps my own masculine could take me through the Pleasure Wave Formula I have been working on.  I started with safety, just making myself feel safe as I lay in the bed.  I took some deep breaths.  From there I played with my body with light arousing touch.  Back into stillness I drifted between sleep and awake.  Then into medium arousal, back into stillness, to higer arousal with combined g-spot and clitoral stimulation, until I had a wonderful orgasm, which I spread all over my body.  I sat in stillness again to notice how I felt different from when I began.  When I showed up at the conference I felt like I was glowing!  What a way to start!