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Day 92- Kegelcisor and Phone Sex

I was on Playboy Radio almost a month ago when one of the callers gave me a homework assignment to try phone sex.  I came home and did some research and found a number on Betty Dodson’s site1800 EROTICA.  I went into the session feeling like I wouldn’t really be able to get into it and that it would ultimately turn out to be cheesy and dumb.  I was wrong.

Here’s my experience…

I was nervous, and I had been putting this assignment off, so I was somewhat pushing myself through resistance to try this.  Today, is the day! First, I picked out a toy to play with.  I got my new favorite lubeAloe Cadabra, and a Kegelcisor.  I read the instructions on the Kegelcisor, lubed up and dialed the number for the phone sex line.  First they wanted to verify my age, I had to answer a few questions to an automatic service.  It was discreet and non-invasive.  Plus, free I might add.  Then they asked if I was a man or a woman and if I was looking for a man or a woman.  Next, I was asked to make a personal message.  So, I recorded a short blurb about play and experimentation.  Then I was given a number of messages to listen to from men.  I was surprised that some of them were really sweet, some were very erotic, and some I knew right away that I wasn’t interested in.  Almost instantly I started getting private messages and invites for connection.  Some of the private messages were very arousing.  I’m putting it all out there, so I have to admit that the more arousing ones were men describing what they were doing or what they wanted to do.  I was less turned on by messages about age, hair color, location, weight or whatever.  While I listened to the messages I started in with clitoral stimulation and playing with the Kegelcisor.  I loved the weight of the Kegelcisor and the idea that I was working my pelvic floor muscles.  I finally did choose someone to connect with.  It was a message about teaching me how this all worked.  Ultimately the sex educator in me won out.  I wanted to learn so that I could teach!  Unfortunately, the caller was no longer on the line, so I went back to listening to the sea of erotic voices out there.  All of them seemed to want anonymous erotic connection.   I rode the sea of male voices on the line, that was pretty much enough for me.  Some of their messages I played over and over.  I had three orgasms that rolled into each other, first two vaginal orgasm and then a deep clitoral orgasm.  And right when a voice said “I would really like to be there when you have an orgasm”.  Well, he got his wish.

I hung up the phone and kept playing with the Kegelcisor.  I did about 5 minutes of specific exercises for my pelvic floor muscles.  It felt great post orgasm, like a deep massage after an intense workout.

I would actually recommend this.  It was fun, it was exciting and new, and I felt in control of who I wanted to talk to.  And it was pleasurable!  The thought did cross my mind that some people might consider phone sex cheating.  I’m in an open relationship so it isn’t an issue for me.  However, I could see how some people might get triggered by it.  On another note, phone sex is safe sex.  You don’t have to worry about STD’s, STI’s or emotional entanglements.

Day 52 & 53- Thoughtgasms and Sleepless O’s

Day 52- It’s late, very late.  I’ve been self-pleasuring.  It was close to midnight when I started my session.  I crawled up the love loft, everyone in the house is asleep.  I have to say I was exhausted, I even thought I might actually fall asleep during my session.  I was floating on the edge.  And even though I wasn’t in the mood, I quickly got in the mood.  Then I was so stimulated that my mind started racing a thousand miles a minute with great ideas.  Ideas for new sex toys, ideas for my oral series, ideas after ideas after ideas.

I thought that I had better not have an orgasm or it would really, really keep me up…that leads into day 53…

I was so aroused and stimulated after my late night session that I just couldn’t sleep.  After laying there for an hour I decided to just go for it, so I went back to the loft, laid on my belly and worked myself into into a clitoral orgasm.  I laid there for awhile feeling full of energy and my mind was just on fire with thought.  There was no way that I was going to get to sleep.  So, I went for some more orgasms, why not?  It’s now 3:00 am and I am still awake!  But I’m getting a lot of work done, now, if only I didn’t have to work all day tomorrow!

Day 47- Erotophobia

Where do I begin? Let’s see, late last night, after midnight, I really just wanted things to be like old days, before my baby was born. I used to get myself to sleep with multiple orgasms every night, but every since I gave birth, I haven’t been able to do that; the opposite happens and I’m up all night. But I went for it anyway. A lovely nostalgic late night/early morning romp.

I woke up in the morning ready for my orgasmic shot of energy, so I made love to myself again. My mind was on fire during the entire session. I just kept thinking about Erotophobia, the fear of the erotic; sometimes also called sexual shame. I know that there are a number of causes, but it’s still so hard for me to understand why sex has become such a “bad” thing. Why are things like masturbation, oral sex and anal play so taboo? I just don’t get it. Sex is wonderful. It’s something so natural. It’s such a way to celebrate being human. I’m glad I’ve worked through most of my sexual shame. It still comes up every now and then, but for the most part I’m pretty free.

Day 9- Grateful for Multiples

Aaaahhh…I’m floating on a cloud!  I am so grateful that I am so orgasmic.  Today I had an orgasm in less than a minute, figured, “Why stop there?”  So I just kept going, and going.  My whole body was trembling and shaking and I was left in a very relaxed, very blissful and in a bit of an altered state.  Really felt amazing riding the waves of excitement and enjoyment.  I’m loving my Tuesday afternoon sessions!